I just finished smoking and was standing outside the NJ Transit exit next to the closed sidewalk searching for a place to get some munchies before my LIRR train.

A guy (had to be about 6'2"-6'5", white, lean, was wearing a tshirt and shorts, really shiny, slightly big stud earring on his left ear, didn't get to see his right ear lol) came up to me. He had a really big smile and I was distracted by his smile and his earring the entire time.

him: wow, i've never seen someone style black and white like that.
me: ??????? (confused because i was high, and was trying to decipher what he said... bc b&w is literally the most basic thing ppl wear..)
him: sorry, that was bad. i thought you were cute and wanted to know if you were married or have a boyfriend (chuckling, smiling... thinking back, i think he was nervous laughing)
me: (laughing bc thats my nervous coping mechanism) i have a boyfriend

and then he disappeared...

I instantly regretted what i said bc... well i don't have a bf. I was thrown off a little bc he asked if i was MARRIED and i'd never been asked that before! LOL

My friends think I crushed the guy's soul bc he mustered up the courage to come up to me but it looks like i laughed at him...
For what it's worth, i wasn't laughing at him, i was just caught off guard and i think he's cute too. I haven't been able to stop thinking about him since and have never regretted this much before 😭